Please welcome guest blogger Agapi Stassinopulos. Born in Athens, Greece, she tours the country as a motivational speaker and is the author of Conversations with the Goddesses and Gods and Goddesses in Love. Agapi recently collaborated with her sister, Arianna Huffington, to complete her book, On Becoming Fearless, from which her workshops were developed.
A personal friend, Agapi has been the source of so much inspiration. Her insights and wisdom have helped keep me going and kicked me in the butt when I really needed it. I have no doubt you will walk away with something powerful from her post below on Finding Your Own Voice.
And remember; be YOU - everyday!
Bob
Now that Hillary Clinton has found her voice, there are no excuses why each one of us doesn’t start looking for our own voice immediately.
So here are some of my tips on how to go about finding your own voice.
In the case of Hillary Clinton, she didn’t find her voice - her voice found her.
In a moment of crashing reality that she could loose the nomination, she was humbled, tired and defenseless, but she knew that she had to keep going to the very end.
Her voice of vulnerability opened up and took over. The façade of pretending that everything was great and cheery cracked and her true emotions came through. At a moment of loss came the truth that none of this is easy.
I don’t think Hillary Clinton was crying for the country at that moment. I think she was crying for herself, for how hard it is to keep going when the challenges keep coming at you — and God knows she has had many. But good for her that she allowed that truth to come out at that moment and that she didn’t suppress it.
Being understood and embraced gave her confidence that more of her authentic self, that part that has been so carefully contained, can now come through. She became more human.
So what can we learn from this? What can we apply to the way we live our lives off the campaign trail? Let’s take a look:
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